Culture Shock Korea A Survival Guide to Customs

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With over three million copies in print, CultureShock! is a bestselling series of culture and etiquette guides covering countless destinations around the world. For anyone at risk of culture shock, whether a tourist or a long-term resident, CultureShock! provides a sympathetic and fun-filled crash course on the do’s and don’ts in foreign cultures. Fully updated and sporting a fresh new look, the revised editions of these books enlighten and inform through such topics as language, food and entertaining, social customs, festivals, relationships, and business tips. CultureShock! books are packed with useful details on transportation, taxes, finances, accommodation, health, food and drink, clothes, shopping, festivals, and much, much more.
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c.maslon November 15, 2009 at 12:08 am

culture shock korea!
Rating:5 out of 5 stars
The book is packed with hints and suggestions. I have found the book interesting the moment I picked it up.
I have found the book 100% accurate and suggest it to any Expat to Korea.
My self living in Korea and working- this is extreemly helpful.

Pierre Renault December 10, 2009 at 7:01 am

Good for Expats, but….
Rating:4 out of 5 stars
As a former resident of South Korea, this book was excellent for expats living in South Korea, but at times contains superfluous information about real estate and international schools that would be of little use to the average reader.

Andrew Blaisdell December 28, 2009 at 7:58 pm

fantastic
Rating:5 out of 5 stars
This book makes me LOVE LIFE! Get it if you plan on going to Korea, or just find the ideals of other countries interesting.

Kursten Leigh January 9, 2010 at 8:14 pm

it was okay….
Rating:3 out of 5 stars
it was okay, but the facts there were outdated(like the person before me said). I have been in Korea for 4 years, and some of things are different from the book. Especially the men-woman relationship. It isn’t like that anymore. It gives you a general idea of what Korea is like, but don’t trust all the details.

M. Smith January 17, 2010 at 10:45 pm

2008 edition
Rating:4 out of 5 stars
For being an introductory read, this book rocks my socks. I highly recommend this book for beginners of the language, expatriates, Koreanists, people with Korean travel plans, and anyone doing business in any form with Koreans. It’s that good. I’ve read my share of culture books and resources but I feel that this book (namely, this edition) demystifies several Korean cultural idiosyncrasies in a clear way that is easy for anyone to understand.

I applaud the authors for including a do-and-don’t list. I feel that this helps clear up some questions left by other resources. It’s true, most things Korean-related (as with any culture) usually aren’t cut-and-dry and objective enough to make a list but I still feel that the authors were tasteful and appropriate in their advice.

This book kind of reminds me of a cross between Moon Handbooks – Korea and Culture Smart! Korea rolled into one. There’s useful info on holidays, work ethic, psyche, travel destinations, and living abroad. This book deserves a look. It’s a quick read with pleasing aesthetics and well-divided topics.

You’ll thank yourself later for this one.

Lady Jane Gray January 28, 2010 at 2:08 am

Korean Culture Awareness
Rating:2 out of 5 stars
Excellent book on Korea. Gives details on what to expect and how to react. Many things that I did not know….

VERY HELPFUL!!!

J. Burstrem February 8, 2010 at 4:00 am

a MUST-HAVE for every traveler to Korea
Rating:5 out of 5 stars
I found very few inconsistencies between my experiences (living in Korea for nearly two months in the summer of 2000) and what I read in the book – even the parts about men and women. Having read it and having it with me made me feel so much more comfortable so many times because I knew what to do and what to expect. I strongly recommend it.

Anonymous February 11, 2010 at 12:40 am

An OK book, but a good travel guide is more useful
Rating:3 out of 5 stars
This book was OK, but I wish that I had just spent my money on a good travel guide (Moon Handbook Guide to S. Korea by Robert Nilsen) because most of the information was superficial. Worth a look into if you are in a bookstore or library, but otherwise I would just save my money.

James R. Holland February 11, 2010 at 6:31 pm

Shedding Light on the Korean Enigma
Rating:4 out of 5 stars
I have a lot of Korean friends and I wanted to better understand them so my search for a more knowledge of their culture led me to this book. I was fascinated by it. However, since my copy of the book was last revised in 2000 I wondered if some of the material might be out of date. Some of it didn’t seem to agree with the images shown in most Korean television soap operas and popular music shows I also watch. After finishing the book I decided to ask some of my Korean friends if the material I had questions about was indeed out of date. One such question was whether most of South Korea still has public restrooms shared by men and women at the same time. The book said women walk nonchalantly past the backs of men using the urinals on their way to use a stall with a door. Once inside a public restroom’s bathroom stall there will often be no toilet, simply a hole in the tile floor over which to squat like I’ve often found in Paris and other regions of France.

I asked several of my Korean friends and was surprised to learn that the book is perfectly accurate on both those facts. Other of my doubts included the almost universal adherence to Korean shaman fortunetellers (Mudands) and their advice (kuts and kosas). And the fact that most dining is done in near silence with everyone paying close attention to just eating and not talking. That’s still very much the case according to my friends from South Korea. Heavy drinking is also a universal fact among Korean men. It’s part of all social and business dealings.

That said I found this book very, very helpful. It was more helpful than a couple of the travel guides I own that are more recent because it goes into depth about why things are done the way they are in modern Korea. People act differently and it often takes a lifetime to understand the proper ways Korea citizens treat each other and why. Business relationships are often permanent and based more on which grade school a person attended with his associates than skill at performing a certain job. Family, school and military connections are more important to business relationships than performance. Saving face is of major importance in Korea. Friendships are formal and a normal part of business and networking. Relationships between different social and business classes are very structured. One doesn’t have to study much of the language to understand why the Korean word for “yes” sounds like “no” in most other languages and the method of saying “no” requires several phrases. Saying “no” in Korean is a major skill requiring much diplomacy and practice. We Americans would consider the way “no” is used in Korea as “beating around the bush” and avoiding answering the question.

For any Westerner who hopes to understand modern day Korea this book is a good primer. Just watching Korean television doesn’t give a true picture of the nation. The Korean Soap Operas go out of their way to show the most modern, most perfect image of a booming Modern Korea. Korean television’s popular music shows give no hint of the standard of living and are every bit as slick as the same kind of shows shown in the USA. The plots of the soap operas still reflect the history and cultural ways of Korea. Reading this book greatly increased my ability to understand much of what I watch on Korean television and why some of the plots and humor seem so convoluted.

Kipling said something to the effect that “East is east and west is West and Never Do The Two Meet.” His advice is still right on the mark. You can take the Koreans out of Korea, but you can’t take Korea out of the Koreans. Korea has a rich and fascinating history. It had invented and was using movable type to print more than two centuries before Guttenberg introduced his movable type printing press to the western world.

Anonymous February 24, 2010 at 2:13 am

For business travellers, and long term visitors
Rating:5 out of 5 stars
I am teaching in Korea for a year. This book prepared me for what to expect when I got here. There is a lot of useful information for visitors. Korea’s etiquette is so different from North America’s that its necessary to be prepared before coming here! This book really helps prepare for the unexpected differences.

John Peck March 4, 2010 at 4:40 pm

Interesting snapshot.
Rating:4 out of 5 stars
This is the third book I’ve read from the Culture Shock family. The other two were for France and Spain. I haven’t yet traveled to Asia, however if you’re considering living abroad and want a glimpse of insight into life in Korea, this seems like a good book to start with. Admittedly though, this is my first reading on Korean culture, so I may subsequently revise this review as I gain more perspective.

K. Johnson March 7, 2010 at 8:57 pm

Great guide to Korea’s culture
Rating:5 out of 5 stars
I am currently on route to my destination in Korea (have just landed in Seoul) but I have read most of this boook during the 12 hour flight here. I found it very user friendly and informative. I’m not sure how up to date it is (many cultural changes have taken place in Korea in the last 15 years) but it is very helpful in explaining cultural norms and how to make a good impression as a foreigner. Highly recommend if you are travelling to Korea for a long period of time (I am going for a year)

Daniel Grabon March 8, 2010 at 9:58 pm

Dated, but still worth it
Rating:4 out of 5 stars
As other reviewers have mentioned, some of the information in this book is dated– but these days that’s almost impossible to avoid. Society is currently changing so rapidly in Korea that even something written a year ago would be outdated now. Also, many of the customs and rules listed are still applicable but not quite as important as the book suggests. Nevertheless, this book should still be required reading before ANY trip to Korea, short- or long-term. It’ll give you a much better perspective on where Korean culture has been and where it’s going now. Once you arrive you may find yourself overprepared with this book– but that’s much better than the other way around.

Less High Fructose March 11, 2010 at 2:52 pm

1980s adult culture, but still useful
Rating:4 out of 5 stars
I read this entire book prior to going to Korea in Nov 2002, and it was very good preparation for a very different culture, one that I already thought I knew pretty well. On the other hand, it did little to prepare me for the fact that a major cultural shift is occurring in Korea, with modern Korea blending western and eastern cultures. For example, respect of elders is still a (very nice) part of the culture, while knowledge of English and western pop culture is much more common among the younger folk. Even the “outdated” information in this book gives insight on today’s customs, which seem to be evolving on a year-to-year basis; thus, I forgive this book for not being really current, or the authors omission of the culture of the younger generation. Yes, some sections were too outdated, silly, and based on uncommon experiences (see the cute ‘cultural quiz’ in the back), but I think it’s probably the best book out there regarding the ‘culture shock’ you will experience.
Things that need to be included: A better understanding of the agrarian history of Korea will prepare one for the sights of cabbage and rice fields interspersed within the city, and the fact that bul-go-gi or kal-bi (bbq beef) is much more expensive than your typical vegetable dish. There should be more useful expressions in the back of the book. For example, here is a typical conversation: “Hello. Where is the bathroom? I don’t speak Korean. Do you speak English? Thank you.” The Olympics 1988 and World Cup 2002 have made the cities much more tourist- and western- friendly. However, there are negative views towards the American presence, especially since there have been some highly publicized tragedies involving the US military recently. Tap water quality (applying western standards) has improved greatly in the major cities, but still remains an issue in the rural areas. You need to combine this book with an updated travel guide (and more knowledge of current events) for the best preparation.

Yeschef March 17, 2010 at 10:03 pm

Okay book, a little dated
Rating:3 out of 5 stars
I read this book before moving to Korea. The book prepared me for SOME of the differences between Koreans and Westerners, but some of the information was extremely outdated. The book is good for people to get a general idea of the culture in Korea, but Culture Shock!: Korea, needs to be updated. Most of the information on the relationships between men and women in Korea is just plain wrong.

Oklahoma Teacher March 20, 2010 at 4:27 pm

Culture Shock Korea style
Rating:5 out of 5 stars
Very interesting book about the differences in Korean culture and how to fit in in a new culture. Some editing mistakes, but a good read.

Anonymous March 23, 2010 at 3:51 am

Don’t Leave Home Without It (or an updated version)!
Rating:4 out of 5 stars
This book answers many common questions about Korean culture. With humor, insight, and understanding, it explains why Koreans do the things they do, especially those things that boggle foreigners staying in Korea (the scoop on personal space, ettiquette with strangers, formal language, work relationships, etc.).

It is, understandibly, OUTDATED. (I believe there is an updated version available, which I haven’t read yet.) Read it anyway, if you are going to Korea. You will be prepared for the cultural conflicts you run into; You just might not run into as many differences as the book lead you to expect.

Highly recommended!

Anonymous March 25, 2010 at 8:19 am

Excellent breif overview of Korean life. Hul-lyung han!
Rating:4 out of 5 stars
This book gives an excellent overview of life in Korea and Korean views. It is a MUST read for anyone who will be visiting Korea, especially for extended stays. It also would be helpful for anyone living in or near a large Korean population in America. I highly recomend it along with any of it’s counterparts in the Culture Shock Series.

Anonymous March 29, 2010 at 6:12 pm

Excellent book! A real necessity if traveling to Korea!
Rating:5 out of 5 stars
I read this book about two months before taking a two week trip to Korea. Just about every cultural experience I had was outlined in the book. In researching other Korean books, this is the only comprehensive book on culture I could find. Don’t just read it, study it. However, please take some time to really enjoy the Korean culture.

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